I watched Alex Hormozi’s relationship advice video

I watched this video, “If I Were Single and Starting Over, This Is What I Would Do,” by Alex Hormozi a couple of month’s earlier, and it has so many insights that I made notes in my Google Keep. Today I will be talking about the same.

Let’s get started.

1. The person you spend the rest of your life with will have the largest impact on who you become, what you achieve, and how happy you are. So, decide wisely. Don’t hurry. I learned it the hard way when I got into a relationship for the first time. At that time, I was single and very eager to get into a relationship.

2. Everyone has a type; find your type and be brutally honest about it. Check for things that you would love in your better half and also things that you can’t tolerate at any cost.

3. Instead of doing 100 tweaks to get a girl, work on yourself, and you can get any girl. This statement just changed my perception. I always looked up at people wearing formals, talking in English, and showing the side of theirs, which is not true, just to impress the girl. I would rather be so successful that when I propose to a girl, she has no chance of saying no.

4. Get more exposure to find a partner. Don’t always get the first girl you come across. Look until you find your type. You just need one to marry.

State all the bad things about you; if they are fine with it, you got a steal. It means instead of saying all good things about you on a date to impress the girl, you can rather tell all the bad qualities of yours, and if the other one is okay with it, then the only things they will get other than that are good traits of yours, and you get a steal.

5. If you value novelty, exploration, & chase over loyalty, trust, & journey, then don’t marry, you are not yet ready.

6. Your spouse marries two people. The person you are and the person you want to become make sure they love both. Many times, it happens that your spouse likes your present self but not your future self, or the other way around. So, you must make it clear beforehand.

7. If they love the person you will become, they will be willing to deal with the sacrifice it takes to get there. This is the sacrifice of success. If one wants to achieve greatness, the other has to sacrifice. For me, I want to travel full time & do something for world hunger, or I may have any other desire, and I will always expect sacrifice from my better half.

8. Your spouse can either be a liability or an asset. Liabilities decline in value over time. Assets increase in value. I recommend choosing the latter.

9. Wives and husbands are a dime a dozen, but a true partner is worth their weight in gold.

10. Cheerleaders don’t ask the quarterback to leave the game when the game’s on the line. A good spouse clears the way on the field or cheers from the sidelines to support you. But you know what they never do ? Ask you to leave the game when the game is on the line

11. If you are with somebody who can’t get straight what they want from you, find someone who does.

12. We all need someone who believes in us. As much ( or more ) than we believe in ourselves.
Bonus points if they’re your spouse.
Double bonus points if you’re that person for them.

13. In a relationship, it’s about being better, not different from who you are.

Thanks for reading.

This is Navneet signing off from today’s blog.

Peace🕊️